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161 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples
Questions for couples who think they have already heard all of each other's stories.
18+ questions for couples are on their own lists, behind an age check: Spicy for Couples and Juicy for Couples.
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One statement at a time, starting mild. Tap I have or Never and see how far your ten fingers last. Free, with no sign-up.
All 161, top picks first
- 1.
Broken up with someone in a way I regret
- 2.
Walked in on my significant other doing something embarrassing
- 3.
Ruined date night just so I could be reunited with my bed
- 4.
Farted in front of my partner and blamed it on someone else
- 5.
Farted in front of my partner’s parents
- 6.
Danced in the rain with a partner
- 7.
Been dumped via text
- 8.
Taken a spontaneous trip with a partner
- 9.
Organized a thoughtful gift for a partner "just because."
- 10.
Stayed up all night just talking and laughing with a partner
- 11.
Had a partner say ‘I love you’ and not say it back
- 12.
Been in an open relationship
- 13.
Had an open relationship
- 14.
Farted in front of a significant other
- 15.
Regretted getting married
- 16.
Accidentally called my partner by an ex’s name
- 17.
Felt like my partner doesn’t listen to me
- 18.
Felt like I’m not a priority to my partner
- 19.
Secretly stolen food from my partner’s plate
- 20.
Pretended to like a show just because my partner liked it
- 21.
Cried during a romantic movie together
- 22.
Had a silly inside joke that only we understand
- 23.
Binge-watched an entire show together in one weekend
- 24.
Been serenaded or sang a serenade
- 25.
Received a love letter
- 26.
Dated someone more than 10 years older or younger
- 27.
Felt like the third wheel while dating someone
- 28.
Been dumped on a holiday or birthday
- 29.
Had a date’s pet hate me
- 30.
Felt love at first kiss
- 31.
Regretted moving in with a partner
- 32.
Written a poem or song for a significant other
- 33.
Been in a relationship for the wrong reasons
- 34.
Had a partner throw me a surprise party
- 35.
Done a couple’s costume for Halloween
- 36.
Been in a relationship with a significant age gap
- 37.
Used my partner’s toothbrush without permission
- 38.
Learned a new skill or hobby because it was important to my partner
- 39.
Helped my partner fulfill a dream or goal
- 40.
Gone on more than one date in one day
- 41.
Secretly disliked a meal my partner cooked for me
- 42.
Finished a whole series without my partner (when we promised to watch together)
- 43.
Tried to teach my partner something and failed miserably
- 44.
Slow-danced with my partner without music
- 45.
Gone on a romantic vacation with my partner
- 46.
Cooked a meal together
- 47.
Surprised my partner with breakfast in bed
- 48.
Had a couple’s massage
- 49.
Danced together in public
- 50.
Thought about proposing to you
- 51.
Had a screaming fight with my partner in public
- 52.
Gone on a double date with my parents
- 53.
Called a partner the wrong name
- 54.
Said “I love you” before the other person
- 55.
Been proposed to
- 56.
Been cheated on
- 57.
Regretted a romantic relationship
- 58.
Gone on a “bad” blind date
- 59.
Been turned off by your morning breath
- 60.
Been turned down when I wanted to do it with my partner
- 61.
Had breakfast in bed with someone I’m seeing
- 62.
Had a partner with a pet I didn’t like
- 63.
Been in a relationship with someone who was too clingy
- 64.
Been in a relationship where we had nothing in common
- 65.
Given a pet name to a partner
- 66.
Met a partner's parents within a month of dating
- 67.
Given a massage to a partner
- 68.
Been called by a pet name by a partner
- 69.
Bought a gift for a partner and ended up keeping it
- 70.
Had a dream about a partner cheating on me
- 71.
Been to couples therapy
- 72.
Brought a partner to a work event
- 73.
Made a partner watch a movie or show that I love
- 74.
Been on a double date
- 75.
Had a picnic date
- 76.
Been in a relationship where I felt ignored
- 77.
Had an argument in public with a partner
- 78.
Gone on a date to a place I hated
- 79.
Lied about liking a gift from a partner
- 80.
Planned a surprise date for my partner
- 81.
Cooked a special meal to celebrate our relationship
- 82.
Thrown a party to celebrate my partner’s achievements
- 83.
Called someone by an ex’s name
- 84.
Pretended not to be home when a partner came over
- 85.
Forgotten a special occasion
- 86.
Been caught in a lie by a partner
- 87.
Dated someone from a different cultural background
- 88.
Pretended to like a partner’s family
- 89.
Dated someone I was not attracted to
- 90.
Forgotten my partner’s birthday
- 91.
Dated a co-worker
- 92.
Been on a road trip with a partner
- 93.
Shown up at my partner’s workplace to take them out for lunch
- 94.
Gone camping with my partner
- 95.
Been afraid of meeting my partner’s parents
- 96.
Forgotten our anniversary
- 97.
Been in a long-distance relationship
- 98.
Called the person the wrong name I was dating
- 99.
Been embarrassed to be seen in public with my partner
- 100.
Doubted my compatibility with my partner
- 101.
Seriously considered moving to another city
- 102.
Purposely sat next to my crush
- 103.
Taken the long way just to walk past someone I liked
- 104.
Cooked a romantic dinner for my partner
- 105.
Given my partner a surprise gift “just because.”
- 106.
Planned a trip just for the two of us
- 107.
Made breakfast in bed for my partner
- 108.
Written a love letter to my partner
- 109.
Danced with my partner in the kitchen
- 110.
Gotten jealous over something small
- 111.
Said “I love you” first
- 112.
Planned a future date night months in advance
- 113.
Spent a holiday away from family, just us two
- 114.
Gone to a concert or event just because my partner loved it
- 115.
Embarrassed my partner in public (on accident)
- 116.
Planned a future together out loud
- 117.
Met my partner’s parents
- 118.
Bought matching outfits with my partner
- 119.
Taken a couple’s selfie
- 120.
Stayed up all night talking with my partner
- 121.
Been jealous of someone talking to my partner
- 122.
Planned a surprise date night
- 123.
Discussed marriage with my partner
- 124.
Shared a secret only with my partner
- 125.
Gotten jealous of someone you talked to
- 126.
Stayed up all night talking to you
- 127.
Daydreamed about our future
- 128.
Surprised you with a gift
- 129.
Shared a secret with you
- 130.
Been nervous to meet your family
- 131.
Cried in front of you
- 132.
Talked about marriage with you
- 133.
Felt embarrassed by you in public
- 134.
Thought you looked disgusting in the morning
- 135.
Been disliked by my partner’s parents
- 136.
Dated someone with children
- 137.
Had a dream about marrying a partner
- 138.
Dated someone shorter/taller than me
- 139.
Gone to bed angry
- 140.
Had matching outfits or coordinated looks
- 141.
Had a pet name for you
- 142.
Forgotten an important date with you
- 143.
Broken up with someone
- 144.
Lived with a romantic partner
- 145.
Been in a relationship for more than a year
- 146.
Been on a holiday with a partner
- 147.
Been to a party as a couple
- 148.
Watched a sunset or sunrise with a partner
- 149.
Gone on a double date
- 150.
Worried about my partner when they are out
- 151.
Wanted a big family
- 152.
Forgotten an anniversary or special date
- 153.
Taken care of my partner when they were sick
- 154.
Made a playlist for my partner
- 155.
Watched a romantic movie together
- 156.
Made you breakfast in bed
- 157.
Had breakfast in bed
- 158.
Had a partner cook me a meal
- 159.
Had a silly argument over nothing
- 160.
Had a fight over something silly
- 161.
Been annoyed by you
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What are some Never Have I Ever questions for couples?
A few from the top of this list: “Never have I ever broken up with someone in a way I regret”, “Never have I ever walked in on my significant other doing something embarrassing” and “Never have I ever ruined date night just so I could be reunited with my bed”. There are 161 in all, top picks first.
How do you play Never Have I Ever virtually?
On a video call, one person opens the For Couples deck on this site's Play page and reads each statement out, and everyone who has done it puts a finger down. On your own, choose Just me and the game deals the statements one at a time. It's free, with no sign-up.
Where are the 18+ questions for couples?
This list shows only all-ages questions, so 113 questions that are 18+ are left off. Adult questions are on the Spicy and Juicy lists for couples, behind an age check.
How do you play Never Have I Ever as a drinking game?
Everyone has a drink. One player reads a statement that starts with “Never have I ever”, and everyone who has done it takes a sip. Then the next player reads one. Without alcohol, hold up ten fingers and put one down instead.
What is a good Never Have I Ever game for couples?
Face-off, made for two on one phone. You each answer the same 10 statements in private, then compare your answers card by card. Press Play and choose Two of us.