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61 Deep Never Have I Ever Questions

Thoughtful questions about fears, regrets and turning points, for when the game gets real.

18+ questions are on their own lists, behind an age check: Spicy, Dirty, Juicy, Freaky, Extreme, Drinking and Flirty.

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All 61, top picks first

  1. 1.

    Broken up with someone in a way I regret

  2. 2.

    Stayed in a relationship that I really wasn’t feeling

  3. 3.

    Been a bully

  4. 4.

    Been to therapy or counseling

  5. 5.

    Broken someone’s heart

  6. 6.

    Saved a life

  7. 7.

    Donated an organ

  8. 8.

    Regretted getting married

  9. 9.

    Wished I didn’t have kids

  10. 10.

    Felt like my partner doesn’t listen to me

  11. 11.

    Felt like I’m not a priority to my partner

  12. 12.

    Been to therapy

  13. 13.

    Been in love with someone who didn’t love me back

  14. 14.

    Been in love with a friend who didn’t feel the same way

  15. 15.

    Considered getting plastic surgery

  16. 16.

    Maxed out a credit card

  17. 17.

    Killed a pet by accident

  18. 18.

    Been paranoid that I have some disease

  19. 19.

    Thought of what my last meal would be if I was ever on death row

  20. 20.

    Used a dating coach

  21. 21.

    Regretted moving in with a partner

  22. 22.

    Been in a relationship for the wrong reasons

  23. 23.

    Questioned my sexuality

  24. 24.

    Doubted my sexuality

  25. 25.

    Completely misjudged someone who later became a close friend

  26. 26.

    Been bullied by other kids

  27. 27.

    Doubted my sexual orientation

  28. 28.

    Had a big blowup with a close friend

  29. 29.

    Been cheated on

  30. 30.

    Worked three jobs at once

  31. 31.

    Regretted a romantic relationship

  32. 32.

    Failed a class

  33. 33.

    Spent a night in hospital

  34. 34.

    Run away from home

  35. 35.

    Wished I was an animal

  36. 36.

    Thought about getting plastic surgery

  37. 37.

    Regretted a relationship

  38. 38.

    Been to couples therapy

  39. 39.

    Been in a relationship where I felt ignored

  40. 40.

    Dated someone I was not attracted to

  41. 41.

    Regretted a breakup

  42. 42.

    Done something I regret

  43. 43.

    Marched in a protest

  44. 44.

    Doubted my compatibility with my partner

  45. 45.

    Seriously considered moving to another city

  46. 46.

    Planned a future together out loud

  47. 47.

    Kept a secret for more than 10 years

  48. 48.

    Stayed friends with someone just because of shared history

  49. 49.

    Discussed marriage with my partner

  50. 50.

    Stayed friends with someone just to avoid hurting them

  51. 51.

    Been jealous of my friends

  52. 52.

    Wished I was the opposite sex

  53. 53.

    Wished I had a different name

  54. 54.

    Worried if I have AIDS

  55. 55.

    Believed in aliens

  56. 56.

    Broken up with someone

  57. 57.

    Broken a promise

  58. 58.

    Wanted a big family

  59. 59.

    Had a negative bank balance

  60. 60.

    Believed in a higher being

  61. 61.

    Been influenced by my peers

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What are some deep Never Have I Ever questions?

A few from the top of this list: “Never have I ever broken up with someone in a way I regret”, “Never have I ever stayed in a relationship that I really wasn’t feeling” and “Never have I ever been a bully”. There are 61 in all, top picks first.

How do you play Never Have I Ever virtually?

On a video call, one person opens the Deep deck on this site's Play page and reads each statement out, and everyone who has done it puts a finger down. On your own, choose Just me and the game deals the statements one at a time. It's free, with no sign-up.

Where are the 18+ deep questions?

This list shows only all-ages questions, so 8 questions that are 18+ are left off. Adult questions are on the Spicy, Dirty, Juicy, Freaky, Extreme, Drinking and Flirty lists, behind an age check.